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One of the elements to achieve success is self confidence. There’s no way to utilize the super power of the Law of Attraction without self confidence.

Self confidence is often being misunderstood and people usually relate it with the proud and ego, which are negative feelings. We are taught in school not to be proud and egoistic and here the problem arises …

When a person ties self confidence with the attitude of proud and ego, he/she actually imprisons and confines the self confidence from shining out from him/herself because it contradicts with the way s/he was brought up which is not to be proud and egoistic.

This problem can be solved by understanding the differences between self confidence and proud.

Self confidence is a positive feeling and should be possessed and enjoyed by every individual. Self confidence does not carries the meaning of insulting or looking down on others.

Self confidence is like when you get yourself a new haircut, a new dress or a new pair of shoes and you feel good about yourself. It enhances your emotion and improves your mood.

You feel happier, do things quicker, and as a result, you get luckier. According to the Law of Attraction, when you feel good, you’ll draw more good feelings onto you.

People around you wonder how you get so lucky each time that they oversee the power of the Law of Attraction that you tap into.

In my humble opinion, you feel the self confidence within yourself and not comparing yourself to others. By that, I mean, if you think that you are smart, that’s confidence but, if you think that you are smarter than (fill it in with a name), then that’s proud.

By drawing a fine line between the self confidence and ego, it’ll be easier to shine out your confidence without having to worry that you are expressing the immoral quality.

One of the steps of manifestation is to believe that you already have it. That’s confidence.

A friend of mine asked, “what if it doesn’t come true? You’ll be killed by the disappointment”

That’s quite true at the first glance. But if we think it over, the disappointment hit us only if we are not confident and patient enough.

Most people give up and feeling disappointed after meeting with Mr. Failure for the first time. If they are confident and faithful enough, they’ll find out that the failures are actually the bridges that bring them to their goals.

Here are some ways of expressing

Birds of a feather flock together

Like attracts like

Whatever you want wants you

What you sow, you reap

What you put out you get back

What comes around goes around